TOGETHERNESS
AND ITS DISCONTENTS
During the last
conference in
Copenhagen, 2017, on “Discourses
we live by”, there were many moments
when we
reflected on the role of relationships and groups, both as resources
and
occasions for learning, e.g. when they offer recognition, challenges,
and
opportunities for reflection, and as contexts of power, oppression, and
mystification, when frames of meaning and structures are imposed on us.
And
when our proximal system, the family and cultural groups in which we
are
embedded, seem unable to evolve with us. We also reflected on the role
of
conflict as a triggers for transformative and intercultural learning,
and or a deadlock
and the driving force behind dramatic escalations of violence.
We are social and
communicating
beings: in fact, we are born in a human group, a family,
whatever this
term might
mean, across different cultures, and we become part of many groups,
communities, teams, organizations, associations. Every time we engage
with the
new and different we have to learn how to position
ourselves in
connection to
others, and to the whole. We also learn how to separate, to
individuate, to
take a distance, to be able to transform ourselves, and our
relationships, in a
healthier, safer, more respectful and rewarding ways. Separation as
well as
togetherness lie at the root of human flourishing. Our narratives can
sustain,
celebrate, or challenge the I, and the Us, in building individual and
collective
identities.
By researching learning
biographies, we can discover many references to experiences of
belonging, and
to their role in shaping experience and meaning, and how they are part
of the
construction of knowledge, identity, awareness, and coordinated action.
Togetherness can be a filter to read human lives, at an intermediate
(meso)
level in relation (and maybe connecting) the subjective (micro) level
with the
larger context (macro). But separation from families, from the known
and
familiar, is important too in building new, even liberated identities
and for understanding
ourselves in the world.
So, we have decided to
focus the next conference (1-4 March 2018) on the place and nature of
togetherness
in learning lives, and how it becomes part of our research. And of the
discontents – echoing Freud – that can surround such experience.
We
want to
consider the learning potential of dialogue as well as of breakdown and
conflict, at a time characterized by many experiences of dis-connection
and
reciprocal mistrust, of violence, and refusal to engage with the other
except
in negative ways. When groups become ‘immune’ from the other, offering
protection and belonging but at the expense of any capability to engage
with
diversity and otherness, and to learn from them.We want to consider
different
kinds of human groups, their origins, their processes of construction
and
destruction, and of potential evolution and transformation: is there a
form of
group learning, when we consider a group as a ‘Mind’, i.e. a system of
ever
changing interconnections that develops information of its own?
(Bateson, 1972).
Various themes can
intersect: of
class, religion,
ethnicity, nationality, age, gender, sexual orientation etc. and how
individuals can make a difference within the groups they compose, or
can feel
that development is only possible through separation. Homogeneity and
heterogeneity are always present, and the way they are managed can
favour
learning or hinder and block it, e.g. when one’s characteristics become
reasons
for marginalization, symbolic violence, bullish behaviour, etc.
Perhaps we need new ways
of conceiving connectedness, to help in building more open communities
and to
revitalize educational processes, and or research, as social and
communicative
human endeavours, and to enhance our humanity, across difference, and
against overly
narrow and constraining ideas of belonging. And for strengthening
democratic
processes in contexts of life, work, and learning. Biographical
research
emphasizes subjectivity, and the possibility of telling one’s story, as
a way
to illuminate individual life experience and trajectories; this
continues to be
an important focus for us as researchers, but we also need to consider
how we
can together build better contexts to sustain transformation as well as
continuity, at all levels.
As
frequently discussed in previous conferences
in Milan, Canterbury and Copenhagen, new conversations, models and
methods are
needed to highlight the auto/ biographical origins of what is essential
for a
good life, and for a just society; this goes back to our experiences
during
childhood, adolescence, youth and adulthood, encompassing formal
education, as
well informal and workplace learning, and experiences of political
engagement.
A class, a party, an association, a group of friends, our family of
origin as
well as the family we created, like a working team, can play an
important role:
the conference will be a space for us to think about such experiences
together,
hence realizing this same process in our conversations, to seek to
illuminate
where resources for learning can lie and how we make sense of them, in
the
lives of those with whom we research, as well as our own.
SOME QUESTIONS
What kind of learning emerges from the experiences of connectedness? Do groups, families, teams, and organizations ‘learn’? How did it have an influence in our lives, and the lives we search?
What of separation processes and their place in learning?
Can life-based or narrative research itself enhance togetherness, and if so how, in which conditions and with what effects?
What are the conditions that enable people to learn within relational systems, and to transform them?
Can adult education and learning profit from a better knowledge of these issues? If so, how?
Is togetherness a motivator towards adult learning, and does education enhance togetherness?
What are, on the contrary, are the potential manifestations of dis-connection, and with what implications?
Can togetherness become a delusion, a mystification, a prison of the mind, or an obstacle in a world that celebrates individualism?